Loving God does not mean that you choose to love Him only when things are good. Loving God means truly loving Him even when life doesn't go as planned. It means resting on Him and in His Word day in and day out, through the joys, the trials, the tribulations, the seemingly meaningless and meaningful parts of life. Don't turn your back on God when life turns bitter and cold. Even in the bitter and cold, there is warmth and love waiting within God's arms. He's reaching out to you every single day...take His hands and curl up in His love. It's really not as hard as you might think it is.